Improve socket auth, outbox loading, some other things

packages/util/src/Kinds.ts

@@ -178,6 +178,9 @@ export const EVENT_TIME = 31923
 export const EVENT_RSVP = 31925
 export const HANDLER_RECOMMENDATION = 31989
 export const HANDLER_INFORMATION = 31990
+export const ALERT_REQUEST_EMAIL = 32830
+export const ALERT_STATUS = 32831
+export const ALERT_REQUEST_PUSH = 32832
 export const COMMUNITY = 34550
 export const ROOM = 35834
 export const ROOM_META = 39000

packages/util/src/Relay.ts

@@ -13,6 +13,7 @@ export type RelayProfile = {
   icon?: string
   banner?: string
   name?: string
+  self?: string
   pubkey?: string
   contact?: string
   software?: string