Fix link_deps, normalize relays less aggressively

src/app/components/RelayAdd.svelte

@@ -88,7 +88,7 @@
       <input bind:value={term} class="grow" type="text" placeholder="Search for relays..." />
     </label>
     <div class="column -m-6 mt-0 h-[50vh] gap-2 overflow-auto p-6 pt-2" bind:this={element}>
-      {#if customUrl && isShareableRelayUrl(customUrl) && !$relays.includes(normalizeRelayUrl(customUrl))}
+      {#if customUrl && isShareableRelayUrl(customUrl) && !$relays.includes(customUrl)}
         <RelayItem url={term}>
           <Button
             class="btn btn-outline btn-sm flex items-center"

src/app/core/state.ts

@@ -755,7 +755,7 @@ export const getSpaceUrlsFromGroupList = (groupList: List | undefined) => {
     }
   }
 
-  return uniq(urls.map(normalizeRelayUrl))
+  return uniqBy(normalizeRelayUrl, urls)
 }
 
 export const getSpaceRoomsFromGroupList = (url: string, groupList: List | undefined) => {